10 Ways to Light His Fire

10 Ways to Light His Fire
  1. Tell him how glad you are that he is part of your life, and how lucky you are to have him.
  2. Tell him that you love him just the way he is and that you wouldn’t trade him for any other man in the world.
  3. Don’t criticize, evaluate, or give advice of any kind unless he asks for help.
  4. Touch him every single day – starting today.
  5. The next time he makes a suggestion, follow it.
  6. Ask for what you want. Make it easy for him to meet your needs.
  7. Don’t send mixed messages. Be honest with what you tell him.
  8. Notice his physical appearance and compliment him.
  9. Give him a backrub and tell him how special he is to you.
  10. Replace your lamp’s light bulb with a red bulb and have a night of passion.

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Ellen Kreidman is the author of "Light Her Fire", a truly awesome book! Men, check out "Light Her Fire". As a teacher, author, and seminar speaker on relationships for over 18 years, Dr. Ellen Kreidman is dedicated to enriching people`s lives and improving relationships around the world. Visit LightYourFire.com.

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  1. Ellen,

    I enjoyed listening to Light Her Fire. Thanks for your enthusiam. I went away encouraged and full of ideas and information for myself and friends and clients. As a life coach, this has been a resourceful tool.
    A friend of mine lent me the tape series to listen to. I just have one problem now, tape 2 is missing. Is it possible for me to buy tape 2?

    Thank you so much, Bernice

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