This week I want you to put sex on the calendar.
You heard me right! Yes, I want you to plan for it.
I know some of you are saying, “What about the spontaneity?”
It was never spontaneous. In the beginning you always planned to be together.
Let me ask you something. What do you think a honeymoon is, if not an entire week of planned sex? And everyone has the time of his or her life planning for that… sometimes a year in advance.
You go out and buy special lingerie, undergarments, cologne, perfume and it’s exciting, knowing that you are going to be together.
We put doctor’s appointments on the calendar, dentist’s appointments on the calendar, we even schedule car maintenance on the calendar. But heaven forbid, we schedule the person who means the most to us, on the calendar.
So take out your calendars and schedule in a night of lovemaking. Making the decision in advance to have sex creates anticipation and can make sex just as exciting as when you were dating.
Send something to your mate that will remind him or her of your date. Here are some suggestions:
- Send a negligee to him or silk boxer shorts to her at the office.
- Send body oil or lotion with the promise of a massage.
- A love letter telling your mate how you can’t wait!
- A bottle of his favorite cologne or her favorite perfume.
- A tape of romantic music.
Simple things that say, “You are the most important person in my life and I love you.”