Another update on my sitatuion, more details.

davemiester

I would first like to start off by saying today (september 25th 2008) is my birthday, I turned 24 today! Smile

Ok so here is the thing. I know my ex is with another guy, she tells one of the friends that we are both friends with that they are pretty serious. Which she jumped from me to him anyways it seems like. But anyways, I have a profile tracker on my myspace. And just about everytime she logs on she visits my site and a girl im friends with (heather)'s site. Bc the profile tracker I got tells me. Ok now since I dont talk to her at all, she first was pissed at me and hated me. When I stopped talking to her after I found out she was with this guy, a month later she would text me with stuff like "your friend just got jumped in the parking lot" just making a general conversation. Then another month later (note: shes still going to my myspace) she would text me with the death of her kitten and me being the nice guy I said "well if you need anybody to talk to im here" (which I really shouldnt have said but I made her know that I would just be there to talk and thats it). She's still visiting my myspace. When she texted me with "my cat died" and I said "who's this" She then 2 hours later asked one of my friends at her work if I had a girlfriend. From what my friend said is she didnt look worried but could tell she wanted to know. But that (like joe mentioned) could have been because I replied with "Whos this?" thinking she might have thought I did have a girlfriend. But really why would she care anyway? Now about a week later im asleep on my bed and the phone is ringing (it rang about 3 or 4 times) and it was her number. I didn't answer because I didnt want to that and I was tired so I let voicemail pick it up. She didnt leave a message. Since then I havent heard anything else from her but she still goes to my myspace its been about a week.

Now my question is this. Has she finally realized what she lost and where she screwed up? Is she just trying to be friends? Or is she thinking twice? It has to be something. I guess you really cant tell... All I know is, she got a new phone so she definatley didnt delete my number if she called me. Plus to have it ring like that it definatley wasnt a mistake. What does she want with me? She should know she's made me angry with what she did with me. All I really want is an apology and for her to tell me the truth. If she ever wants anything like a friendship or anything out of me ever again. I know absence makes the heart grow fonder and time heals all wounds. But what the heck is going on? I know definately it has to be something since she visits my myspace all the freakin time. Im not getting my hopes up because quite frankly the reason I dont talk to her is because im still trying to get over her, and I think I need to tell her that. Anybody give me any advice to tell me what u think is going on and what I should do?

Allegra · Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2008 3:04 am Post subject:

I don't think anyone can really guess what she's thinking. However, my advice would be to ignore her for now, especially given that you're looking for an apology. Unless and until she leaves a message saying that she's sorry and really wants to talk with you, why bother?

She might be feeling bad about what happened, but she's not likely to apologize if you eagerly return her call because, in her mind, that signifies that you're "okay" with everything that happened. So, don't call her back. Make her work for your friendship now if you want to be taken seriously.

davemiester · Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 4:05 am Post subject:

another update: One of my friends at the place she works at went up to her and said "so have you wished david a happy birthday yet?" and she told him "why would I call him? We had a bad breakup". And im thinking to myself. I dont know why would you text me and call me and all that other stuff too?! Weird..... women are weird and im staying out of it.

Allegra · Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 12:07 am Post subject:

Yes, that IS weird! Better you stay away! Let HER work for your friendship!

davemiester · Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 1:55 am Post subject:

yeah I am i still dont talk to her, and im not. Ive came close but always caught myself and said no u dont need to. I think she might have gotten mad because i think she saw my birthday photos and it pissed her off. But if she gets mad about that it just means she still cares. But its whatever, i put it all in gods hands.

Allegra · Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 10:10 pm Post subject:

Well, I - for one - am proud of you!!!

Good job keeping your dignity! I've no doubt that you'll find someone you like sooooooooooooo much better that you'll look back at this and thank God that things worked out the way they did.

davemiester · Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 1:08 pm Post subject:

thank you im definately trying not to keep in contact with her. Some days I still wake up missing her, but those have diminished with time. Some days I just dont even care. But what makes me happy is I look at it this way. im just turned 24 im still young I should be out having the time of my life right now and not worrying about whats going to happen tomorrow, god will decide that. And also not to look back, because you cant change, you can only look forward. And at the same time, she was the one who mostly did wrong (not saying I didnt either). But she hurt me and she knows it and I cant change how someone feels. She's obviously either hormonal or mad at something, because before she was the one talking to me about her cat dying and trying to make general conversations even though she did all this crap to me. Like I said she's weird and I have no clue what she's thinking.

Allegra · Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2008 12:18 am Post subject:

I'm so happy to hear that you're moving on with your life. Someday, she'll realize what she lost with you. In the meantime, I'm sure you'll find someone who will actually appreciate you for who you are - AFTER you're done having some fun!

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