You want to know these things! So we at GetRomantic.com surveyed over 2000 women and asked them: “How do you love to be kissed?”. Below is a sampling of the responses received, word-for-word!

• “One word: EARS! I cannot get enough kisses on my ears! I also love to have my hair played with.” (Brad, 26)
• “I love it when my partner holds the back of my head while we kiss, and runs her fingers through my hair as we kiss.” (Shawn, 23)
• “I love when my partner licks my lips and then slowly blows cold air on them. That is really a turn on.” (Corey, 18)
• “I love when she runs her hands all over my head while I kiss her neck.” Trent (23)
• “Fingers through the hair is great, as is stroking of my neck. Gentle biting of my lip, and occasional kissing of my closed eyelids.” (Andrew, 41)
• “I love when my partner caresses my face and sucks my lower lip really softly.” (Yusif, 19)
• “I like when she runs her fingers through my hair and especially when she kisses my neck.” (James, 16)
• “I love it when my partner starts off with just a little unexpected peck on the mouth then it turns more passionate. I also love when she grabs me and moves me very close to her.” (Peter, 23)
• “I love when my partner nips my bottom lip during a kissing session. I also love to start french kissing by slowly exploring the tips of each others tongues.” (Curtis, 32)
• “I love when my partner kisses me behind the ear, then moves to my lips in a kissing trail.” (Randy, 17)
• “I love when my partner kisses my ear and works her way down my face, kissing every spot of skin along the way.” (Gavin, 19)

I once heard an elderly man describe the success of his 75 year blissful marriage to his wife. He attributed it to the fact that he told his wife daily that he loved her and kissed her at least twice each day. I aim to follow his example and by having the kissing spot of the week, it helps me to make certain I am not forgetting to give my wife the daily kisses she deserves so much.

Some of the kissing spots have been: behind her left ear, between her eyes, the soft spot in the middle of her cheek and on the nape of her neck. It’s fun trying to decide where the next “spot” will be and my wife looks forward to the new kiss at the beginning of the week. I do not forego kissing her on the lips, but I do make a conscious effort to kiss her often on the “kissing spot.” If your sweetheart hasn’t been getting the kisses he or she deserves or you are looking for a way to be a more creative kisser, perhaps you too can implement the Kiss of the Week into your romantic lifestyle.

When you want to go from kissing their lips to kissing their ear don’t just stop kissing their lips then start kissing their ear. Keep in contact with their skin by tracing up their jawbone with your tongue and quick, little kisses. Their jawbone leads up to that sexy little area behind their earlobe that is often ignored. When you get there flicker your tongue behind their earlobe in that crevice between the back of the lobe and their skin. Follow that with a few kisses then try any of the tips below:

• Moisten the tip of your tongue and use it to gently trace around the rim of your partner’s ear
• Flicker your tongue on, under, and around their earlobe
• Take their earlobe between your lips and suck on it for a moment before slowly releasing it
• Take their earlobe very gently between your front teeth and slowly pull your teeth down the lobe until it is released from your mouth
• Trace their ear with your tongue so that it becomes moist, then blow softly on the moistened skin. This will give your partner a cool, tingly, sensation. Suck in air instead of blowing for a hot sensation. Note: be careful about blowing in their ear canal, it can be very painful!
• The ear has two “rims”. The outer rim and another rim inside it, closer to the ear canal. Use your tongue to prod and lick between and on the two rims.
• Whisper sweet nothings or sexy somethings in their ear while kissing them. Try: “mmmmm…you smell so good.” or “I love you (insert their name here)” or “You drive me crazy” or “I love kissing you.” or, if appropriate, just tell your partner how turned on you are.

Warning

• Avoid actually sticking your tongue into their ear canal. Some people love this, others think it is gross, find out which category your kissing partner falls into before trying this move.
• Don’t kiss directly on your partner’s ear. The sound it makes can be surprisingly painful when applied over one’s ear canal.

1. Trace the outline of her lips with your tongue
2. Run your tongue across his lower lip
3. As you draw back to end the kiss suck out her lower lip a little, then release it.
4. Nibble on his lower lip
5. Hands play a key role in kissing, never underestimate the wonderful effect you can have on your lover simply by touching and caressing their non-erogenous zones. Run your fingers through their hair, cup their face in your hands, rub their shoulders or back, trace their ear and jaw with your fingers, use soft feathery touches up and down their neck and cheeks with the back of your palm and fingers, put your hands on her waist and pull her towards you, run your hands up and down their arms, entangle your fingers in her long hair.
6. While french kissing run your tongue along his gums
7. Engage in a little sensual finger sucking. The next time he or she asks you to taste some food off their fingers initiate this sensual ritual.
8. Caress the backside of her lips with your tongue. This is the part that is in contact with their gums. It requires you to curl your tongue up under their lip.
9. While french kissing make circular movements with your tongue around theirs
10. Experiment kissing your lover in different places: their eyelids, their wrists, their forehead, their neck, behind their ears, the back of their neck, their temples, their shoulders, the tip of their nose
11. Gently suck on his tongue when it is in your mouth
12. Gently and briefly suck on the lip you are kissing
13. For a truly sensual experience pass different liquids between your mouths while kissing. Try: cold water on a hot day, hot chocolate on a cold day, wine or a piece of ice
14. Hold your partner’s hand and trace figure eights on the underside of their wrist with the tip of your tongue.
15. Stroke the underside of your lover’s tongue with yours
16. Flicker the tip of your tongue against the tip of your lover’s
17. For a sweet kiss surprise, wet your lips and sprinkle them with a bit of sugar, then kiss. Try salt for a salty kiss.
18. Trace around the outside of your lover’s ear with your tongue. If you want to draw this out make circles around the edge of their ear that get smaller and smaller as you approach the center, then softly blow some cool air across their wet skin. For a warm effect place your lips next to their skin and inhale gently. Do not inhale with your lips over their ear canal…ouch!
19. Flicker her earlobe with the tip of your tongue
20. When you want to move from kissing their lips to kissing their ear, moisten your tongue and drag it up their jawbone rather than just stopping on their lips and starting on their ear.

1. What you do right before a kiss will set the mood. Gaze into their eyes and pay your sweetie a romantic compliment.
2. Hold your partner firmly, but gently in your arms. Put one arm around their back and put the other around the base of their head.
3. Occasionally, put both of your hands on your partner’s cheeks to intensify the moment.
4. Kiss other places than the mouth. Add variety and intimacy by breaking away to kiss the cheek, forehead, neck, or anywhere else you feel is appropriate.
5. While maintaining a slow rhythm is essential to establishing intimacy, occasional bursts of intensified and quick movements (with tongue and hands) lasting several seconds will increase the passion.
6. Break the lip lock every few minutes to make a compliment about your partner’s kissing ability, passion, or how sexy they are.
7. Location will determine the intimacy of the moment. Don Juan, himself, would have trouble creating a sensual moment in a busy school hallway with people walking by. Isolated areas are the best place to unleash your passion.
8. Use your hands to freely caress your partner’s body. You can caress the hair, stroke their back, etc.

You want to know these things! So we at GetRomantic.com surveyed over 2000 women and asked them: “How do you love to be kissed?”. Below is a sampling of the responses received, word-for-word!

• “I love when my boyfriend breathes warm air behind my ear, then gives me soft warm kisses on my neck and shoulders.” (Paulette, 31)
• “It drives me crazy when he sucks my tongue!” (Sherry, 24)
• “I love when my partner talks while kissing me. It can be done and it is very appealing! Try saying something like: ‘open your eyes’ or ‘take down your hair’” (Leanne, 18)
• “I love it when my boyfriend pulls away just to look into my eyes for a moment.” (Angie, 28)
• “I love when my partner groans while we’re kissing, and when he seems more interested in the kiss than I am.” (Tessa, age unknown)
• “I love when my partner runs his fingers through my hair until he reaches the back of my head where he cups it gently and pulls me near him. Then he slowly lets his fingers drag down my neck back up to the side of my face.” (Connie, 18)
• “I love when he pins me against the wall and lets my hair down, strokes my cheek, then kisses me on the mouth.” (Bridgette, 34)
• “I love when my partner flicks his tongue behind my earlobe, it drives me insane!” (Trisha, age unknown)
• “My boyfriend does this thing that drives me crazy, I LOVE it. While we are kissing we slow it down and he breaks apart until our lips are barely touching and with his tongue he traces my upper and lower lip.” (Angel, 36)
• “I love when my boyfriend comes up behind me and puts his arms around my waist. Then he begins to kiss the back of my neck, and slowly turns me around to face him. We kiss deeply.” (Sue, 18)