1. We’re going to plan a real vacation.
   No, it doesn’t have to be an around the world cruise or first class getaway (but if you can afford it, what are you waiting for?) It does have to be an honest-to-goodness vacation, though. No cell phones, no laptops. Mark the dates on the calendar and keep it just like you’d keep any business appointment. The business of romantic travel, though, is a fun one and an activity that the two of you can plan for months.
2. We’re going to involve each other in the trip planning.
   All too often, one partner gets the job for planning a trip…and that task quickly becomes a bore. Plan your trips together! Anticipation is half the fun. Visit a travel agent. Collect brochures. Buy a guidebook. Rent a video about your destination. Search the internet for information.
3. We’re going to do something we’ve never done.
   Here you can be as mild — or as wild — as you dare. Go whitewater rafting. Rent a houseboat. Take a hot air balloon ride. Spend the night in a local bed and breakfast. Learn to scuba dive. Dance the whole night away under the stars. The choice is yours.
4. We’re going to take one mini-vacation every month.Whether it’s for the night or just for the night out, plan one tiny slice of a vacation every single month. The only rule: you must pretend you’re on vacation. Book a night at a local bed and breakfast. Call your local hotel and find out their non-peak nights (in business-oriented cities, it’s usually Friday and Saturday) then plan a short romantic getaway.
5. We’re going to go to at least one festival.
   Special events take place at just about every community around the world. Whatever your interests — from square dancing to sandcastle building — you’ll find a festival celebrating with a day or two of fun and food. If you don’t have the time or budget to go far, contact area chamber of commerce or tourism offices within a day’s drive of your home for their calendar of events. If you can, extend your trip into a long weekend. If you’ve got the time and resources, check out some of the major fun festivals: Carnival, Mardi Gras, Rio’s Carnivale. Don’t forget your costume!

In the Caribbean, you’ll find many small islands where the emphasis can be on the two of you. When you’re ready to take a break from activity, sprinkled through the islands are some hideaways that beg travelers to kick off their shoes, toss on some sunscreen, then grab a book and a buddy.

Many islands even have a special word for this lack of activity: limin’, a way to enjoy life at a destination where the livin’ is easy.

Turks and Caicos

“The number one activity here is to do nothing,” says Tom Lewis, general manager of Ocean Club, a low-rise resort tucked on a quiet stretch of sand on the island of Providenciales. And why not? Folks don’t come to the remote Turks and Caicos islands, located east of the Bahamas, to enjoy duty-free shopping, glitzy nightlife, or days of sightseeing tours. They come for the beach, the sun, and the clear-as-white-rum waters that surround these quiet islands.

Providenciales, better known as simply Provo, boasts the largest portion of the Turks and Caicos population but it is still open and unsettled. This sickle-shaped island is dotted with scrubby growth, short palms and climbing sea grapes. Chalky limestone roads wind across the flat island, connecting settlements like Blue Hills and The Bight.

But the traveler to Provo will soon realize that its desert terrain is just a backdrop to the beaches and clear waters that are the main attractions. On some parts of the island the beaches stretch for miles, dotted only with the footprints of iguanas or shorebirds. You won’t find beach vendors or hagglers on these shores, just a few tourists and locals enjoying snorkeling or a swim in the gentle surf. High rises are forbidden, with resorts built no taller than three stories.

And, if you’re lucky, you may just get the chance to meet Provo’s most treasured resident: JoJo. This wild dolphin has been sighted for 12 years along the island’s north coast, the only case ever documented of prolonged interaction between an individual wild dolphin and humans. Often spotted swimming along the north shore or near boats, JoJo is protected and the government has declared him a national treasure.

Tobago

Locals say it’s a destination for the “newly wed and the nearly dead.” Tobago may not be as well known as its political partner Trinidad, but in the world of travelers looking for peace and quiet it’s the leader. Like city and country cousins, Trinidad and Tobago each have their own unique personalities. While Trinidad bustles with activity, tiny Tobago is a favorite with those looking to get away from it all. It’s treasured by the world’s birders and also scuba divers, who seek out giant manta rays near the village of Speyside. But most of all, it’s a place where travelers enjoy life that moves to a Caribbean beat. Goats graze in every field; coconut palm-lined beaches offer quiet getaways; luxury resorts pamper guests with everything from dining to spa experiences.

On Tobago, nightlife is unique and laid back. Once a week the island parties at “Sunday School,” held every Sunday in the community of Buccoo Village. This open-air street party doesn’t get cranked up until near midnight, so come prepared to stay up late and enjoy the pulsating sounds of calypso and soca.

Little Cayman

If you plan to spend most of your time looking for that secluded strip of sand where you never see another set of footprints, then Little Cayman should be your destination. It’s little changed from a century ago, a perfect place to get away from it all and spend your day on a bicycle peddling empty roads, snorkeling in pristine waters, or looking for that perfect beach.

Just 80 miles northeast of Grand Cayman, Little Cayman is worlds apart in terms of atmosphere. Appropriate to its name, this isle spans only 11 miles in length and two miles at its widest point. Boasting none of the glitz of Grand Cayman, Little Cayman does greet guests with all the basic comforts, including several small lodges and condominiums with air-conditioning, satellite television, and telephone service.

With just over 100 permanent residents, the island’s largest population is that of birds and iguanas. Over 2,000 Little Cayman Rock Iguanas inhabit the island, so many that “Iguana Crossing” and “Iguana Right of Way” signs are posted throughout the island to protect the five-foot long lizards.

Little Cayman’s chief draw is its ecotourism: diving, fishing, and bird watching. The late Phillipe Cousteau called the island’s Bloody Bay Wall one of the best dives of his life; today it’s still a favorite with divers.

Nevis

Imagine a country inn where rooms brim with antiques and are cooled by a gentle breeze off a wide porch. You ease into a wicker chair, sip an icy drink, and enjoy a view unbroken by roads, electrical lines, or even fellow travelers.

This is Nevis (pronounced NEE-vis), an island that offers all the country comforts and bed-and-breakfast luxury you might look for in a New England getaway. Here, however, palms replace pines and color comes, not from scarlet leaves, but from azure seas, beaches in shades of both black and white, and verdant forests that engulf the island.

Nevis (along with St. Kitts, its partner in this two-island nation) boasts one of the Caribbean’s largest concentrations of plantation homes. The islands were once dotted with sugar plantations and greathouses, but today these stately manses have been transformed into elegant bed-and-breakfast inns especially popular with European vacationers and with Americans looking to experience a slice of the Caribbean “the way it used to be.” Don’t look for reggae lessons, limbo contests or mixology classes at these properties; instead, expect a sophisticated atmosphere similar to a fine country inn where the emphasis lies, not on providing fun for its guests, but in pointing the way for independent travelers to make their own discoveries.

Columbus first named this island because of the ever-present cloud that circled Mount Nevis, giving it almost a snow-capped look. Today the cloud still lingers over the mountain peak. Home to only 9,000 residents, this country cousin has a charming atmosphere all its own, plus a good share of plantation houses where guests can enjoy a look back at Caribbean history.

1. Buy your lover a stuffed animal and name it together.
2. Challenge each other to a pillow fight.
3. Compete in a video game.
4. Cuddle on a carousel.
5. Enjoy a one-day vacation doing activities you’d normal do with your kids, but this time only include each other. Visit a theme park or water park. Go to the zoo. Ride a miniature train.
6. Ride your partner’s favorite ride at amusement parks.
7. Talk to each other in pig Latin.
8. Tell each other scary stories
9. Visit a playground. Swing and slide together.
10. Win your partner a prize at the arcade.
11. Write your names on a balloon and watch it drift off in the breeze.
12. Buy some bubble gum. Have a bubble blowing contest.

1. Blindfold your lover and drive to a surprise destination. Offer tantalizing clues along the way but don’t give out the secret until you reach your destination–whether it’s a local B&B, a downtown hotel, or a special campground.
2. Gift wrap a present for your lover. Sneakily talk with the waiter before your food arrives and ask him to slip the present in one of the dishes–perhaps in the roll basket or a basket of tortilla chips.
3. Surprise your mate after a restaurant dinner with a cake you’ve pre-ordered.
4. Surprise your lover with a one-night vacation. Rent a room at a local hotel (even a budget motel) and decorate it with some five star goodies: a bottle of champagne, some chilled shrimp, fresh strawberries, cheese, French bread, whatever you like. Pack an overnight bag for each of you. Pick up your partner from work for a special surprise “night out.”
5. Book the honeymoon suite in a local hotel.
6. Turn your home bedroom into a romantic enclave for the night. Buy satin sheets, fresh flowers, tea candles, and a romantic CD to set the mood.
7. Hire a limousine for your special evening out.