This game requires a blindfold and a small amount of honey, chocolate syrup, nutella or caramel…and no clothes. Blindfold your partner, then hide a drop of honey somewhere on your body. Without using his or her hands, and without the aid of sight, your partner has to find that drop of honey…with their mouth. :)

What’s Your Fantasy?

You and your partner should each write down 5, or so, fantasies you have that could be acted out together at the time you are playing the game. Put all of the fantasies in a jar and take turns drawing from them and acting them out. If you pick one of your partner’s fantasies and do not feel comfortable doing it, tell them nicely and choose another. This game definitely makes for a fun night!

Sexy Secrets

I created a fun game to play with your lover. You can print it from the GetRomantic.com website > Printable Sex Game

60 Seconds in Heaven

Take turns picking an area of your body and letting your partner spend 60 seconds lavishing that spot with sensual attention: kisses, licking, nibbling, caressing. One benefit of this game is that you will learn what areas your partner is yearning to have you pay more attention to.

Sexy Dice

Get a pair of dice. On one die, use white-out to fill in the little black circles. Letter each side of the die from “a” to “f”. Write a chart on paper that associates each letter with a body part and each number (on the other die) with an action. For example:

Take turns rolling the dice (both at once) and performing the action that you get, on the body part that you get.

As a variation you could write 6 sex acts (oral sex, intercourse, making out, caressing only, fondling, strip tease) and 6 places in your house (bathroom, porch, living room, laundry room, back yard, stairs).

Strip Crazy-8′s

Similar to strip-poker, you play a hand and the loser has to take off an item of clothing. This game conforms to any card game that can be played in a small amount of time.

What am I Touching you With?

Blindfold your love and have them lie on their back or stomach without any clothes on (or with only their top removed, if you prefer). Sensuously trace over their bare skin with various objects and have them guess what you are touching them with, and tell you if they like it. Try: a pearl necklace, marbles, your hair, silk, a feather, a flower, a piece of your lingerie, a part of your body.

First to Orgasm Loses

The goal of this game is to make your partner have an orgasm before you do…whoever holds off for the longest is the winner. I recommend using the “69″ position and performing oral sex on each other at the same time.

Have Fun!

Things you Need:

Candles

A great way to tell your partner that you’re feeling romantic is by having a few lit when he/she comes to bed. Keep some candles beside the bed and around the room as decorations, and pull out the matches when you’re looking to set the mood. Candles also perform double duty because they cast a wonderful, sexy glow on your skin!

Note: some people have allergies to scented candles, or really just don’t like scents. Ask your loved one which they prefer.

Massage Oil

Be sure to keep a bottle of nice massage oil by the bed. If your partner has had a long day you can offer him or her a relaxing massage before going to bed. Click here for Massage Tips

Romantic Music

…accompanied with a portable mini-stereo. Perhaps you could make a CD or tape of your favorite love songs, or buy one for your sweetheart as a gift.

Black and/or Red Light Bulbs

These create an effect similar to candles, you will start to feel romantic just by having them on in the room. The light is very dim and will either cast a dark blue/black or redish/pink shadow, depending on the color bulb you use.

By the way, red lights are common among stripers and models, because the colors make their skin look flawless and tanned.

Big Fluffy Pillows

…and a big fluffy duvet! Imagine how cosey and inviting a warm bed covered with pillows and a thick blanket would be.

Besides, there are lots of things you can do with extra pillows. :)

The Right Sheets

Flowers and bows and Teddy Bears aren’t romantic or sexy. Ultra-soft cottons, satins and cashmeres are. The higher the thread count the softer the sheet is meant to be…egyptian cotton ranks as one of the softest around.

A Luxurious Bed

You know how it is when you stay at a nice hotel: the bed is so inviting you want to hop right in and never get out! Just looking at it can be an aphrodisiac! The next time you’re in a bed like that notice what exactly it is that makes the bed so inviting…and try to recreate this at home. I mentioned nice pillows and sheets above, but perhaps you and your love could add to that. Something to think about…

Carpet or a Mat

Avoid cold feet between the sheets by having something soft and plush to put your feet on when coming to bed, and when leaving in the morning.

Bedroom Rules:

No TV!

Does your partner stay up late watching TV in the bedroom while you would rather be doing something else? Unplug the television and send it to another room in the house (give it to the kids, it will keep them distracted). Someone once told me that a bed should only be for sleeping and making love. Without the TV in the way you and your partner will have more time to do just that.

Remove any other Distractions

Don’t leave unpaid bills laying around on the dresser, unplug the phone, lock the door and tell the kids to go watch their new TV.